Christmas and The Ex-Married Lover

It’s been precisely nine months since we were officially “over”.  Over, in the sense that we no longer have “relations.”  We work together literally every day.  It is hard for me to let go.  The moment I gain a roll

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Distance and Love Don’t Mix

Distance.  I don’t like that word.  I’m not talking about a long distance relationship where one party lives on the west coast and the other part lives on the east coast.  I’m talking about the distance between someone you love. 

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Loving the Wrong Person Can Make You Feel More Alone Than Just Simply Being Alone

The title..that is a quote I see periodically and it always stops me and makes me think. Yes, technically, I love the “wrong person” to everyone else in the world. To me, he is absolutely the right person. It is

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Somewhere in the Middle of The Story…

I often feel like I am somewhere in the middle of my story when I write these blogs..kind of going back and forth, wishy washy in my thoughts from one day to the next.  I keep remembering a quote from

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Love Changes Everything.

If you have cable television, the movie channels will replay certain movies every month.  Every time I channel surf, I land on a particular movie with Justin Timberlake, Friends With Benefits.  It’s always at the same scene..the one where he

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The Day After

How can something so good be so bad?  How can someone that makes me so happy, send me rolling through a turmoil of emotions from the heights of unfathomable love to despair?  In the middle of all of these rollercoaster

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Compartmentalizing Feelings

The compartmentalizing of feelings in a relationship that is not public is so very necessary.   I really, truly have a difficult time with this.   Let me explain.  It is very important when you see the man you love

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There is no Instruction Manual for the Soon To Be Divorced Mother of Four who Loves a Married Father of Many…

The title pretty much says it all.  Maybe that is why I search through and read blogs about other women (or men) in the same situation…there simply is no instruction manual on how a married affair is conducted, what the

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Addicted to Love or Real Love

I read a really good blog and it was written by a guy who had an affair with a woman, thought he (they) were truly in love and when he decided to make it work with his wife, the other

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